About Pam

"DO YOU EVER THINK THAT THE SOLE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN TO SERVE AS A WARNING TO OTHERS?!"

The first time I heard these words, spoken by Jungian storyteller Clarissa Pinkola Estes, the self-recognition and humour inherent in them made me laugh out loud.  Today I prefer to regard my life as a WELCOME TO OTHERS - a welcome extended to all my website visitors who might be committed to or perhaps just pondering stepping out on a new, challenging stage of their personal journey and who, frankly, could use some company!

Twice married, and twice blessed (YES...I did say blessed!) by the learning and insight of divorce,  I now choose to live a joyously simple and splendid single life amidst the beautiful surroundings of the Ceiriog Valley.  I am - first and foremost - a mother to 3 wonderful young people who keep my own life meaningful.  En route to living 'on purpose' I've been a shop assistant, a barmaid, a theatre usherette, a cleaner, an insurance clerk, a finance clerk, a secretary, an English teacher, an on-line Emotional Intelligence tutor, a housewife, a checkout chick(en), and a carer.

I'm a qualified and experienced Life Coach, an Advanced Practitioner of Emotional Freedom Techniques and a Relationship Counsellor/Trainer.  I've also tutored in Emotional Intelligence and I blend knowledge, skills and expertise from these overlapping disciplines to offer my individual and group clients a unique and tailored personal development package - at very affordable prices!  Whenever appropriate, I am happy to work with clients in their own homes * but fortunately Life/Relationship Coaching and EFT can all be carried out very effectively over the telephone.  Sessions would usually be about an hour but I try  to respond to the particular needs of individual clients.  Longer sessions are available.

An unapologetic Slow Coach I encourage all my clients to allow themselves time off from the hamster wheel of frenetic activity which modern life seems to demand to get to know themselves better:-

  • To live their lives 'on purpose'
  • To choose their beliefs more consciously
  • To honour their values more deeply
  • To treat their bodies more kindly
  • To nurture their relationships more compassionately
  • To achieve their goals more consistently
  • To accept themselves more fully
  • To face their realities more courageously and of course...
  • TO CHOOSE JOY!

I am currently based in Chirk, within walking distance of the town's railway station on a direct line connecting London, Birmingham, Shrewsbury, Wrexham and Chester.  By road I live close to where the A5 joins the A483 within easy reach of Cheshire, Shropshire and Clwyd.